Channeled Message: You can’t choose how someone else loves you.
You are loved, dear heart.
Although you know this, it warrants being said:
You can’t choose how someone else loves you. You can only trust that they do, in their own imperfect way, and be grateful for that love.
Another way to look at this struggle with relationships – how would you feel if someone else tried to change you? If they made you feel as though they could only love and appreciate you if you loved them a certain way and acted a certain way?
You cannot control others, dear heart. You can only accept them as they are so that you will stop being triggered by everything they are not.
Have grace and compassion – for others and for yourself.
One of your greatest callings in this life, part of your divine purpose for being here, is to JUST LOVE.
Just love others with all that you are, and accept the imperfect love that they are able to offer in return.
Finally, know that part of loving yourself is allowance to release the bonds that are no longer serving you, and to do so from a place of love. Just because you accept someone’s imperfect love does not mean that you need to live with it.
Release your control around love, and allow it to be what it is.